Category: Dealing with Negative Emotions

  • Is Forgiveness about Remembering or Forgetting? – Part 1

    “I will forgive but not forget!”  We have all said that one time or the other.  But you know what? When we say that, we are not far off in actually forgiving.  But before we get into that, here’s something of mine I’ll share with you.  There was this bloke that I had been dating. …

  • Handling Failing – 7 Lessons I Learnt from Failing my Driving Test xxx times!

    I am going to share a tale with you about me that you are not allowed to giggle… …I did my driving test 5 times. I will spell it in words, in case you did not read the numeral… Yup, FIVE. Now, before you do indeed start giggling and asking how could that happen, I…

  • When you are Jealous of your Friend

    Being jealous of your friend is not a thing that just affects teenage girls…or women.  Yes, men get jealous but in a different way.  They may call it ego.  Yeah right!  It all boils down to jealousy in my opinion.  And jealousy can strain relationships.  There are even instances of parents jealous of their kids!  Pastors…

  • Your  most comprehensive list on forms of Humiliation

    Last time we took a look at dealing with humiliation.  We feel humiliated because we feel, that our dignity has been assaulted.  It comes because humiliation is all about control, the ‘humiliator’ often being the one in control. Humiliation comes in different forms and some are far more serious than others.  For example, if one…

  • The primary reasons why we get frustrated…and may not even know!

    Ever found yourself yelling over little things a lot of the time? Or it seems like everyone is always doing something that is wrong? Or is that you become easily irritated at others and even things? Or have you unearthed what Aunt Josephine did to your grandmother in 1950 and somehow you are the one…

  • Organizing yourself when you feel low

    It is important to organize yourself when you feel low.  It is easier to lose focus when you are feeling low. Feeling low is a sign that events have affected your emotions.  Negative responses building up in your thoughts result in anyone feeling low. Pulling yourself out of these situations depend on your getting organized. Here…